Archive for February, 2011

Eco-Breastfeeding and Conversions

Sunday, February 27th, 2011

Some couples told us that the practice of ecological breastfeeding has led them to enter the Catholic Church.

One mother wrote:
“Natural Mothering had brought us to NFP which brought us back to the Church.”

Another mother wrote:
“We used the information in your book on ecological breastfeeding to space our babies at 2 years apart (and continue to do so), but all of your references to the Church and Faith got this life-long Protestant thinking!  To make this long story shorter, we will be received into the Church on Pentecost Sunday, along with our six children.  I just wanted to thank you for the part you share in this.  This journey has been one where God has shined little lights along the path we were traveling on.  You have been one of those lights!”

A father wrote:
“When my wife first read this article [The Crucial First Three Years] when we were Protestants, my wife was attending college and I was working.  Our plan was for her to finish college, and I would stay home with our son.  At the most, we would only be away for 17 hours a week, and during this time he would be watched by grandma.  We never really considered the effect it would have on him because 17 hours a week was the most that he would be left and once she obtained her degree, I would stay home.
Thank you for causing me to look at my beliefs and values.  Thank you for having the guts to tell us what no other minister or friend would.  Since we read this article, my wife is now working at home.  We are expecting our second child, and further research has led us to the doors of the Catholic Church.  God works in mysterious ways.  Thanks for being His vessel.”
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“Among these associations [in the apostolate of the laity], those which promote and encourage a closer harmony between the everyday life of the members and their faith must be given primary consideration.”—Vatican II, Apostolate of the Laity, n. 19.

Priests and lay ministers should be promoting ecological breastfeeding and the importance of mothers to be present and available to their little ones.  Couples who practice eco-breastfeeding frequently begin to appreciate God’s plan for their family and may look more seriously to the Church for other answers to questions of life, love and truth.

I developed two animation youtube videos recently.  I’m sorry about the cat animation but you can close your eyes and listen:  Ecological Breastfeeding and Natural Family Planning.

Sheila Kippley

NFP and the Honeymoon

Sunday, February 20th, 2011

Some women are concerned about having menstruation occur on the night of their wedding or during their honeymoon.  To accommodate these women, doctors often recommend the Pill to regulate their cycle so that these women avoid this situation on their wedding and honeymoon days.

The better situation here would be for the doctor to invite BOTH the woman and her intended husband into his office.  Then lay out the facts.  I have a hunch that most men, when told about the possible adverse effects as well as the abortifacient potential of the Pill even for a month, would tell the intended wife something like this:  “Please don’t take the Pill.  You do not want to risk a stroke just to avoid being messy on our wedding night?  Don’t be stupid.  Trust me.  If we aren’t able to engage in the marriage act that night, a couple more days of waiting isn’t going to affect our life together.  A stroke might mean never.”

A doctor or professional or friend can also point out that it is not immoral or unhealthy to engage in the marriage act during menses even if it is less than desirable.  It’s one of those things that couples can choose to do or not do.

A one-page printout on this would be very helpful and we believe should be available on the internet for free.  Maybe such a printout should be part of the standard handouts for pre-marriage instruction.

NFP and the Church

Sunday, February 13th, 2011

A friend shares his thoughts to John concerning the Church and NFP.

John,
Thanks for sharing.  I pray to God, our Lord and Savior that the truth you expound will reach the hearts of many so you will receive the support you need!

I believe NFP is truly one of the Church’s answers to so many of the ills of our society today (pornography, contraception, divorce, homosexuality, abortion.).  I believe these ills are due to the local churches lack of teaching in the area of sex.  The ultimate result (or outcome) of the teaching of the Theology of the Body by Pope John Paul the Great is NFP used in marriage; but most people ignore these issues of our society and so does the Church.  The Catholics in the pew don’t know about NFP and could care less because frankly, they want to control their lives and they don’t:  1) trust God enough, 2) take the vows of Marriage seriously, 3) know or care what the Church teaches especially on birth control.   Of course, you know why – it takes sacrifice to live a chaste life, to have kids, and not many people are willing to sacrifice themselves for the truth like you are.    What a mess!!!

I praise God for you and Sheila!  Sexual issues have made our society the culture of death because the devil has helped us enslave ourselves to these sins.  I am just agreeing with your cause …so no sense in going on and on.  Sexual sins and the results of sexual sin is everywhere …the mindset of our new world.  It is affecting everything!  We can’t even get a bus load of folks to go to Washington DC this year for the prolife cause!  …who wants to sacrifice?

God bless you and keep the faith.  We will be having our pastor over for supper soon and when we do, I will speak to him about having NFP classes as a requirement of Marriage prep at our parish  ..we will see!  I think I know the answer here again, but I will ask / promote /and encourage him to do so.

Keep trying!
YBIJ

YOUTUBE:  I read an article on animation recently in the Wall Street Journal.  As a result I went to one of the animation sites to promote NFPI and here is the result. Sheila