Breastfeeding and the Early Years

    Probably the most important part of the biological oneness between mother and baby  is their ecological relationship:  what affects one affects the other.  We see this in the many health benefits for both.   By health benefits, I am including the emotional health benefits as well as the physical health benefits. 
   If breastfeeding is shortened and the mother stops nursing during the early weeks or months, then both she and baby lose the many benefits of breastfeeding.  The World Health Organization said it well:  “Mothers and babies form an inseparable biological and social unit; the health and nutrition of one group cannot be divorced from the health and nutrition of the other.”
   In addition, quite often the mother soon loses that physical intimate contact with her growing baby when she bottlefeeds. Rare is the mother who holds her baby during the early years when bottlefeeding. Rare is the mother who insists on doing the bottlefeeding herself and who takes her baby with her, but sometimes it happens.  The first couple John and I knew who took their baby with them to college faculty parties were bottlefeeding.  I admired them because they gave us support for what we were doing with our breastfed baby.

Breast milk or Mother
   The value of breastfeeding is heavily emphasized today.  Because so many mothers work, much attention is given to pumping milk at work and storing breast milk.  This is good, but what gets lost is the mother-baby biological oneness.  You can’t give a talk today without someone asking, “What about the working mother?”  While there are many mothers who have to work for the basic necessities and who would prefer being home with their baby, there are also many mothers who could stay home and choose not to do so.  The pressure today is for those latter mothers to leave their babies and little ones and earn money or follow their career.
   But babies do need their mothers.  The continuous contact with mom during the early years is the first step towards building a good foundation for life and future relationships.  God provides for this essential foundation through the presence of the mother.  How does He do this?  With breastfeeding.  The breastfeeding relationship ensures that the mother will remain with her baby.  As Maria Montessori stressed years ago, prolonged lactation of 1.5 to 3 years is good for the baby because it keeps the mother with her baby. 

Next week: More on this topic.
Sheila Kippley
The Seven Standards of Ecological Breastfeeding: The Frequency Factor, 2008
Breastfeeding and Natural Child Spacing, 2008, classic edition
Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood
, 2005

2 Responses to “Breastfeeding and the Early Years”

  1. a.c. says:

    yes, there is a sadness for me in society today…I think a baby has a right to its mother’s milk and presence. How sad to me that the mothers of newborns seem to have so little concern for them about these rights. Our workplaces also need to be changed to support this mother-baby oneness. How strange that we are not at this point when so many third world countries are. I guess materialism has overtaken. 🙁

  2. CN says:

    A.C. – Regarding the third world: this is the problem I have with making financial contributions to many Catholic charities. Too many of them are all about changing cultures from the long-standing patterns of mother-baby togetherness to a form of putting baby in some sort of childcare so that mother can get out and earn income for the family. I wish that western-world charities could be more clever and creative when helping families earn money. In fact, as much as I prefer “hand up rather than hand out” charitable contributions, I would happily donate money to support stay-at-home moms of YOUNG children. Let women work on away-from-home skills when the children get older!
    Sheila: All the more reason for folks to donate to NFPI (P. O. Box 11216; Cincinnati OH 45211). We are in a big need of funds.