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In accord with the intent of World Breastfeeding Week (Aug. 1-7, 2007) to draw attention to the importance and values of breastfeeding, I submit the following:

“It is mother who cannot be replaced.” W. D. Virtue, Mother and Infant, 240.

What’s most important concerning breastfeeding?

I have spent hours writing and talking about the benefits of breastfeeding. We look forward to new research so we can relay the information on to others. We go to breastfeeding conferences and see several tables with pumps so mothers can have others offer their breast milk to the baby in their absence.

I will bring up a can of worms now. I have thought and thought about this question: If I had a choice between two mothers, which one would I want? Which one would you choose? Mother A pumps her milk and leaves the baby for 9 hours, 5 days a week. Mother B takes her baby everywhere with her, stays home, but uses formula. If you were a baby, would you want the breast milk in a bottle or would you want the mother?

I proposed this question last week to a priest who couldn’t be more pro-breastfeeding. His answer was: You know the answer to that. It’s the mother who is so important to the baby.

You look at Scripture and there was Mary and there was Martha. Mary chose the better part. With regard to mothering, a mother who chooses to stay with her baby, usually at home, has chosen the better part. Hopefully she has also chosen to breastfeed as well.

Message: Do all you can to stay with your baby. You, the mother, are the most important person to your baby. The beauty of breastfeeding is that it naturally provides the baby with frequent access and closeness to the mother.

This ends my daily blogs for NFP Week and World Breastfeeding Week. I hope some readers enjoyed them as much as I enjoyed writing them.

Sheila Kippley
NFP International
www.NFPandMore.org
Author: Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood (Sophia, 2005)
Natural Family Planning: The Question-Answer Book (e-book
at this website, 2005)

In accord with the intent of World Breastfeeding Week (Aug. 1-7, 2007) to draw attention to the importance and values of breastfeeding, I submit the following:

Breastfeeding Provides the Mother
For years I have stressed the importance of prolonged breastfeeding in relation to the importance of the presence of the mother to her child’s formation during the first three years of life. We have experts who have stressed the importance of the early years and that the child should have one consistent caregiver during that time. God has provided this care during the early years through the breastfeeding.

For emphasis on the importance of the early years in this blog, I have chosen to quote from W.D. Virtue’s work in Mother and Infant with his permission. The bold-face type and italics are the author’s.

“The maternal-infant bond is one of the most intense unions in each person’s life. The nursing mother is the best primary caretaker of the infant because of her connatural qualities relative to the infant. Breastfeeding insures that the mother will be in constant contact close by the infant day and night so there is affective touch and time for a one-to-one private tutorial in love. Through this prototypical relation the infant is initiated into fidelity and trust and enters the communion of persons. Thus, in keeping with what we said about affirmation, what matters is not simply what the mother does for the infant – for many people can ‘do’ things for the infant. What affirms the infant is the mother’s person in a relationship in which she is moved with love and joy and in an embodied way manifests this delight in the child who thereby feels he or she is good…. Nature has made woman most apt to be the primary caretaker and private tutor of love” (266-7).

“What holds society together is not merely external authority, laws or other social structures, but the interior capacity for love and trust among persons. The infant best grows in this capacity through the maternal-infant bond established through the one-to-one relation in the first three years. What holds society together is moral respect and trust among persons, and the foundation for this moral respect is in the maternal-infant bond whereby through empathy the mother evokes in the child a sense of good and evil. This moral foundation can be given in the fourth and fifth years of childhood because of the bond established in the first three years of life, whereby the child desires to do the good out of love for mother, in order to maintain their harmonious bond, and the child learns to avoid evil which disrupts bond with mother. True morality is based on a relationship to one loved; this is the proper final causality of moral ends as directed to persons and to God as our true end” (382-3).

“This interpretation of the facts of nature and psychology regarding human infant care leads to the conclusion that the child receives the best care and the needs of the child are put first when there is good mothering…To give the best care to the offspring requires full time mothering in the first three years of life”(383).

Message: Mothers, please do all you can to remain close to your little ones during their first three years of life. If work is a necessity, consider part-time work over full-time work or consider work that can be done at home. During normal day-to-day activities, take your baby with you.
Fathers, offer loving support to your wife and remain with your wife and family. Remember that according to David Blankenhorn of Fatherless America you are that “most significant other” to your children.
Parents, pray for each other and your children daily.

Sheila Kippley
NFP International
www.NFPandMore.org
Author: Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood (Sophia, 2005)
Natural Family Planning: The Question-Answer Book (e-book
at this website, 2005)

In accord with the intent of World Breastfeeding Week (Aug. 1-7, 2007) to draw attention to the importance and values of breastfeeding, I submit the following:

“The natural law obliges mothers to nurse their babies with their own milk…This obligation is serious, but admits of parvity of matter if there is a serious reason to excuse and a sufficient alternative is provided.” W. D. Virtue, Mother and Infant, p. 278.

A Form Indicating the Risks of Ignoring Advice to Breastfeed
Prior to having eye surgery, my husband had to sign a release form. On this form, in bullets and in bold face, were 24 serious side effects, many leading to blindness. Because of this list of side effects, my husband went back to his primary eye doctor and discussed these serious side effects and what would happen if he chose not to have the surgery. After these consultations, he chose surgery.

Afterwards, my husband conceived of the idea of translating his medical release form into a form for mothers who choose not to breastfeed. So I took his form and followed the format.

Before I provide the form, it should be said that in a few countries mothers who choose not to breastfeed already have to sign a medical release form stating that they are ignoring the medical advice given to them. Someone recently told us this is happening in Australia. As far as I know, this is not happening in the United States.

Some mothers could take offense at such a form, especially those mothers who tried to breastfeed and were unsuccessful. I have the greatest sympathy for them, and they should not feel bad because they gave it their best try. You do what you can within your abilities or situation.

The release form has been a big hit at breastfeeding conferences. This form could be used for educational purposes, such as teaching a high school or college class. If the form is given to the students, the form needs to be explained but I would not read from it The current research is so fascinating that one only has to point to several diseases on the form and give the research. For example, take diabetes protection for the mother. This would be of interest to a class of girls. Tell them that if they breastfeed their baby for one year, they receive a 15% risk reduction for acquiring type-2 diabetes. Nurse two babies, each for a year, and receive a 30% reduction for acquiring this disease. And this protection lasts for 15 years after the birth of your last baby! That is simply astounding. At least it is interesting research.

The form can be modified. Maybe a teacher would prefer to list the benefits of not using formula or give the risks when formula is used. You have to gear it to your audience. Maybe it would provide a shock value at a medical seminar to motivate doctors and nurses to promote breastfeeding via their own words and via posters around the office.
Somehow we have to get the word out to our communities that breastfeeding is the first choice of feeding our babies and that breastfeeding is normal and good.

The tragedy of not breastfeeding is observed especially in other countries. This June it was reported that 160,000 children die each year in the Asia-Pacific region due to the decline in breastfeeding. According to a recent Save the Children report, it is believed that globally 114,000 lives could be saved monthly if breastfeeding rates were improved. In the Philippines the World Health Organization is seeking the help of the Catholic Church to promote breastfeeding because 16,000 babies die in that country every year due to inappropriate feeding.

What are the monetary savings here in the States if 75% of the mothers breastfed after birth and 50% were still breastfeeding at six months? The savings were estimated for the state of Wisconsin and here are the health care savings for that state if the breastfeeding rates attained those goals:
$4,645,250/year Acute Otitis Media
$437,120/year Bronchitis
$6,699,600/year Gastroenteritis
$262,440/year Allergies
$758,934/year Asthma
$578,500/year Type 1 Diabetes
$17,070,000/year Maternal Breast Cancer
$30,984,432/year TOTAL HEALTH COST SAVINGS FOR WISCONSIN

The United States Federal Government has told mothers that their babies are at risk if they do not breastfeed. During these blogs, I have tried to show readers why this is so. Leaving you with that, here is the medical release form. I hope the form does not offend anyone, especially at this time during World Breastfeeding Week.

MEDICAL RELEASE FORM
When Choosing Not to Breastfeed

NAME OF THE BABY:_______________________________________________________

SITUATION: I have chosen not to breastfeed my baby for personal and/or for medical reasons. I understand that not-breastfeeding entails health risks to my baby and to myself. While my formula-fed baby may be healthy, I understand that research shows that breastfed children are overall healthier as babies and also in their later years compared to their formula-fed peers. While I may be healthy now and in later years, I understand that research shows that I may suffer some adverse consequences from not breastfeeding.

RECOMMENDATIONS:* Mothers should do exclusive breastfeeding for six months and nurse for at least one year. Anything less is second best.

ALTERNATIVE: I may choose to use donated breastmilk.

RISKS OF NOT-BREASTFEEDING:*
I understand that medicine, breastfeeding, and formula-feeding are not exact sciences. I understand, however, scientific research shows that not-breastfeeding exposes my baby to increased risks of the following diseases:
• leukemia • lymphoma
• type 1 diabetes • obesity
• diarrhea • type 2 diabetes
• allergies • ear infections
• asthma • respiratory tract infections
• eczema • urinary tract infections
• bacterial meningitis • multiple sclerosis
• botulism • inflammatory bowel disease
• gastroenteritis • necrotizing enterocolitis
• Crohn’s disease • ulcerative colitis
• autoimmune thyroid disease • sudden infant death syndrome

I realize my child may have a poorer school performance with lower cognitive scores during grade school and high school. Likewise there might be more doctors’ visits and hospital visits because I did not breastfeed.

By not breastfeeding I understand that I, as the biological mother, may have an increased risk for the following diseases:
• breast cancer • ovarian cancer • lupus
• thyroid cancer • anemia • osteoporosis (increased chance of a hip fracture) • endometrial cancer • rheumatoid arthritis

I hereby certify that I have read (or have had read to me) and understand the possible risks of not breastfeeding my baby, whether by choice or for medical reasons. All of my questions regarding the risks have been answered to my satisfaction.
Mother’s Signature:_____________________________Date:____________________
Witness/Professional Signature:__________________________Date:______________

*The above recommendations and risks are found at the following websites: American Academy of Pediatrics: aap.org, American Academy of Family Physicians: aafp.org, and the U. S. Breastfeeding Committee: usbreastfeeding.org. See USBC’s “The Benefits of Breastfeeding” and “The Economics of Breastfeeding.”

© 2006 Sheila Kippley. Reproduction permission is given for purposes of breastfeeding education. This release was adapted from the release form her husband had to sign for eye surgery. This one-page form is available upon request.

Message: Please breastfeeding your baby exclusively for six months and continue to nurse for at least one year and hopefully at least two years.

PS: Sorry. It was impossible for me to line up the “side effects” columns properly.

Sheila Kippley
NFP International
www.NFPandMore.org
Author: Breastfeeding and Catholic Motherhood (Sophia, 2005)
Natural Family Planning: The Question-Answer Book (e-book
at this website, 2005)