“…no one even mentioned the temperature method or breastfeeding. I had to kick and scream and cry (of course) just to have them admit there were other options. Other options they were completely unwilling to teach.”
The quotation is from a woman who was in a bit of a panic. She was about three months postpartum after a difficult delivery and wanted to postpone her next pregnancy. She went to a well regarded center where she talked with someone who teaches a mucus-only system, and she was not happy with their conversation. After her next pregnancy and difficult delivery, she was again in a panic mood. She and her husband had engaged in the marriage act during an early postpartum mucus patch, and now she was thinking that she would have to endure uncertainty for another three weeks before she could have a valid pregnancy test. This time she went to the internet and somehow found us and sent an anguished email. I told her that if she took her temps every morning for five days, I might be able to give her some certitude about her situation. She did so and with great relief announced to me some days later that she now knew she wasn’t pregnant.
The obvious question is this: why didn’t the well paid professional to whom she first turned tell her the same thing? Why do many of the well paid professionals who teach one of the mucus-only systems ignore the temperature sign? Even worse, why do some of them tell women that the temperature is unnecessary (whatever that means) or even that they shouldn’t use it? Or that temperatures are irregular, whatever that means? Or tell them the mistaken idea that the mucus sign is the best indicator of ovulation?
Is that fair to individual women and their spouses? Is that fair to sponsoring hospitals, dioceses and parishes? Who is the real professional—the well trained volunteer who teaches spouses all the common signs of fertility so that they can make their own choices or the well paid promoter of one system using one sign who refuses to tell spouses about other valid common signs and systems? You expect such a narrow approach from a hack salesman but not from someone who wants to be considered a professional. After all, professionals would like us to think that they are something more than mercenary.
The one-sign heresy. Every heresy starts with the affirmation of one truth but then falls into the error of denying other truths. With regard to NFP, this goes way back. One of the early medical promoters of the Calendar Rhythm system strongly believed that the rhythm calculations were self-sufficient and denied that they would be helped by the cross-check of the temperature sign which became available in the latter 1930s. In the late 1960s or early 1970s, a medical proponent of a temperature-only system denied the value of the mucus sign that was just then coming into prominence. And in the early 1970s, the originator of the Billings Ovulation Method discarded the cross-checking temperature sign in favor of a mucus-only system. Interestingly, Dr. John Billings didn’t say the temperature sign was too difficult to use. On the contrary, he said it was so easy to use that women would ignore giving proper attention to their cervical mucus signs. Dr. Billings, of course, had another reason for emphasizing only the mucus sign. He was trying to get this form of NFP into Third World countries where thermometers would be difficult to obtain, and I admire him for that effort and empathize completely with his stand for those in the Third World.
My concern in this blog is for women in First World countries where thermometers are almost universally available. (They are increasingly available also in developing countries.) I have to wonder if the ease of using the temperature sign is not behind the objections raised by some of the well paid professionals against it. If its use makes NFP too easy, the demand for their follow-up services might be reduced considerably.
Let’s take a look at these allegations and objections.
Is mucus the best indicator of ovulation? No. Cervical mucus is certainly a great indicator of fertility, but so is an open and elevated cervix. Peak day (the last day of more-fertile mucus before the drying-up begins) is usually associated with ovulation, but not always. Double-mucus-peak cycles provide a problem because in such cycles because ovulation does not occur around the first Peak day but with a later mucus patch and Peak day. Thus some mucus-only proponents tell women that they need to keep monitoring their mucus every day during Phase 3. Does that sound as if they really believe that Peak day is the best sign that ovulation has already occurred? Here we see the value of the temperature sign. The temperatures remain low after the first non-ovulatory Peak day and then rise in conjunction with the Peak day that is associated with ovulation. Furthermore, according to Dr. Konald Prem’s professional opinion stated in a medical journal, the temperature sign is the single best indicator of a baby’s gestational age. By the way, Dr. Prem is the only doctor associated with the NFP movement who has headed up a department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at a secular medical school.
My wife and I have taught the cervix sign since the early 1970s because breastfeeding mothers found this sign more helpful than the mucus sign during amenorrhea and the sometimes ambiguous return of fertility.
Irregular temperatures? If you are ever told that temperatures are irregular, ask what is meant by “irregular.” Of course you—man or woman—will have slight daily variations in your waking temperatures. That’s the way God made you. That’s why we do not rely on just one or two temps but on the overall levels during and after the mucus patch. The important reality is that God made woman in such a way that post-ovulation progesterone causes her temperature to rise enough so that it can definitely be charted and interpreted.
Special values. A significant value of the temperature sign is that low levels indicate non-pregnancy while high levels indicate post-ovulation progesterone, and 21 days of elevated temps give about a 99% certainty of being pregnant. Postpartum, couples sometimes ignore some mucus patches and then wonder if they have become pregnant. Continued low temperatures assure them of non-pregnancy.
Choice. Choice is not a dirty word. Giving couples a real choice among morally valid systems of systematic NFP treats couples as adults capable of making choices best in line with their own needs and personal preferences. That’s why we teach both external and internal observations of cervical mucus plus physical changes in the cervix. That’s why we teach the what, why and how of ecological breastfeeding; this allows couples to make choices in terms of what is truly best for mother and baby. That’s why eco-breastfeeding as well as all the common signs of fertility should be included in every sort of NFP instruction. Unfortunately, that is simply not the case, and real choice is systematically denied. Is that fair?
John F. Kippley
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