Archive for 2010

Theology of the Body and Breastfeeding

Sunday, September 12th, 2010

The Theology of the Body is most often applied to the relationship between man and woman, but it also applies in a special way to the nursing relationship between a mother and her baby.  Through the act of breastfeeding, a mother gives of her very self to her baby, giving not only food but love and comfort as well.  This giving relationship reflects the donative meaning of the body.  Our bodies make sense only in light of giving them and using them for others.  And a nursing mother constantly gives her body — her arms, her breasts, her eyes — to her baby.  She is rewarded when her baby begins to smile at her, caress her, and even kick with joy as she prepares to nurse him or her….
           The delicate interplay of nutrition, love, and comfort involved when a mother nurses her baby can also provide the benefit of natural postpartum infertility.  There is a form of Natural Family Planning called Ecological Breastfeeding, or eco-breastfeeding.  Eco-breastfeeding is, in fact, the original form of NFP, which often kept the birth interval at 3-5 years in primitive societies. 

Maureen Armendariz
NFPI Teacher with her husband
Wichita KS
Full article was published in Catholic Advance, August 6, 2010.  The above is taken from part of the article.

Pleased to help the Philippines

Sunday, September 5th, 2010

An archdiocese in the Philippines has found our website to be very helpful in their promotion of natural family planning.  Cagayan de Oro Archbishop Antonio Ledesma is promoting natural family planning as an alternative to artificial contraception by launching two books on natural family planning. 

In the Church’s promotion of NFP, Natural Family Planning International (that’s us!) website is quoted,  “NFP is a way of following God’s plan for achieving and/or avoiding pregnancy.  It consists of ways to achieve or to avoid pregnancy using the physical means that God has built into human nature.”

“NFP has two distinct forms:
         Ecological breastfeeding  (a form of child care that normally spaces babies about two years apart on the average) and
         Systematic NFP  (a system that uses a woman’s signs of fertility to determine the fertile and infertile times of her cycle).”

Also   “A married couple who wants to avoid pregnancy is encouraged to practice chaste abstinence during the fertile time of the woman’s cycle.”

We are thrilled to see this announcement and to be of help to another country and hope other countries follow as well.
Sheila Kippley
Natural Family Planning: The Complete Approach

Natural Family Planning and “Of Human Life”

Sunday, August 29th, 2010

The national diocesan Natural Family Planning (NFP) Week is the last week of July.  It recalls the signing of a letter by Pope Paul VI,  titled “On Human Life”. The writing acknowledges concerns about population and birth control, and questions if couples may use artificial methods versus occasional abstinence.  It clarifies that when we look at our bodies and sex, we can see “natural laws” which are a glimpse at the “will of God”.  Obedience to natural law is a means to get to Heaven.
        The document touches on the marital embrace mirroring the generosity and selflessness of the Trinity, and how couples must also keep in communion with the Trinity to see if they can serve God with the gift of another child.  Just as it would be wrong to force a spouse to have marital relations, it is also wrong to actively manipulate or cancel or sterilize one or the other’s fertility, their ability to make a baby, with sterilization, artificial birth control or interrupting the marital act.  It is the more noble way to master the sexual urge and abstain from relations in the fertile days for family planning as this protects our bodies, health, mutual respect and openness to God.
        Society tells us to be responsible, use birth control and limit family size.  On the other hand, the Church teaches that responsibility is not getting what we want all the time, but being moderate and thoughtful about sexual pleasure.  Contraception has made sexual sin too easy for us;  NFP classes help couples live this teaching.  It also shows governments that forced birth control is not necessary.  Married people, with the graces of matrimony, are able to manage their fertility and safeguard the dignity of marriage from perversion.
    See www.nfpandmore.org for free charts and online instruction.  
Ann and Steve Craig
NFPI Instructors
Robstown TX
Article written for NFP Awareness Week 2010